Love is what we all seek, and deep down, want to give. That is the wonderful glow emitting from committed couples. I can’t say how many really long-term marital partners I have seen who told me, “You have to work at it.” I think that’s a very true statement. The emotion of love is quite exciting. But that alone is not enough. Mutual respect and admiration, along with other important “matches,” such us values, are critical to a long-term, enduring, inspiring, joyful marriage.